 To
each her own; and that applies to what a woman wants
in bed -- either a fast fuck or the slow, smooth kind.
However, it seems that most women prefer the sensual
approach rather than the pound-pound-pounding away.
A slow, smooth approach will enable you and your partner
to employ your senses and experience all the bliss related
to the sexual experience. Feel her soft skin, see her
lovely face, hear her moans, taste her mouth, and smell
the scent of her body.
True, most films favor and highlight the fast and hard
fucking. But that's just on film, silly! That's the
way it's supposed to look -- quickly and vigorously.
How else can they sustain your interest if they otherwise
took the slow road? It'd be rather boring, wouldn't
it? So, in order to get that wild and exciting impression,
the porn stars are instructed to take the fast road.
That's why men have created the illusion that this is
just the way it is supposed to be done. Well, sorry
to disappoint.
Besides there are advantages to the slow approach. One
is that you get to explore her body more. It's not just
her breasts and her twat that matters. Have you tried
licking her ears, touching her nape or the back of her
knees, or massaging her foot? Well, you should. These
are highly erogenous areas of the woman's body' and
it'd just be too selfish of you if you don't provide
her the pleasure.
Women are turned on with kissing, caressing, licking
(slurping even). It just sends her to the edge as you
masterfully rein her back. This only makes her even
hornier! She'll want you more and more if you tease
her; building up the aching need inside her. Don't you
just love hearing her moan and feel the tingling down
her spine?
Build up her longing with romantic nuances like flickering
candles, rose petals, fresh sheets, sweet music, kinky
underwear or sex toy. This whole romantic package is
important for her, so don't you try to shortchange her.
Try out various foreplay techniques first before taking
the slow plunge. Intense and increased desire only makes
way for numerous orgasms.
A slow approach also conserves your energy for that
surging crescendo. If you thrust harder and deeper,
you are in a rush to get there. You're only forcing
it; and it's not as satisfying as it should have been
otherwise. It could also give your honey a stiff neck
or sore back, for that matter. Several seconds of frenzy
rewarded by a quick orgasm is rather limiting. Why not
extend your pleasure even more?
Learn how to control your urges. Build up her longing
with slow, deliberate thrusts, pausing curtly, and constricting
your inner muscles. Touching fosters a stronger connection;
the more you are familiar with each other's bodies,
the more intimate your sexual encounters would be.
Every sexual experience means so much for a woman. So,
try to approach your love-making with sincerity, confidence,
and respect. You can show her this by making her feel
special and by considering her needs. She may not say
it out loud, but she needs more than a steely pecker
inside her. She needs more than that, and you should
know better.
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